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2014.04.29

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Mountainguy

若從《印加巫士的智慧洞見》書中所示,「受害者/加害者/拯救者」的心態模型,本來就是一種錯誤的認知世界。我們的世界是依我們自身的想像所建構出來的!於是,當我們認為「被好友中傷/被親愛的人背叛」等等,常常也有我們自身的責任在內,以及我們長久以來對於一段關係處於「誤認(misrecognition)」的狀態卻總一廂情願地以為有「共識」。到頭來,發現與他人之間存在一種認知的差異,卻迴避自身的責任與問題,無異又把責任外化,推諉為他人的責任(把他人貼標籤成為加害者而把自我設定為受害者);若是,將永遠不可能解決問題。因為,當一個人無法面對自身與自我心靈,不願反思自己參與和「共謀」的責任,就不可能真的找到改變的契機。而真正的改變,必須先從自心自性做起;在覺察、映照、反思的歷程裡,才能更清明地看見自己,也感謝他人對我們帶來的正向能量與改變!(即便是惡意攻訐的行為)

Aiwah

今天一來就看見這篇新文,忍不住對這世界的同時性感到十分驚奇!(滿是敬意地)謝謝Mali。

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